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5 Things Dads can do to Raise Emotionally Healthy Children

5 Things Dads can do to Raise Emotionally Healthy Children

Sometimes I have the opportunity to work with men on issues of fatherhood including the themes of communication, commitment, identity, intimacy and trust. The men I work with often have difficulties in their personal lives relating to the people they love most. They yearn for their children to be happy and successful, yet they often lack the skills and ability to model a way to help them accomplish this.

Help – My Baby Will Only Sleep On Me!

Help – My Baby Will Only Sleep On Me!

One of the most common concerns I hear from new parents is that their baby will only sleep on them. On their chest, nursing or in a sling, they are happy but the moment they are gently placed down in their basket, they awaken crying and desperate to be picked up again. This is such a source of worry for a parent who loves their baby and wants to do things “right".

Are you offering unconditional love in your parent-child relationship?

Are you offering unconditional love in your parent-child relationship?

Over the years as I have worked with, advised, laughed with, worried with, walked the journey with thousands of parents, I have found one thing missing in many parent-child relationships. It is the one thing everyone needs and the one thing most live their entire lifetime without. That unpracticed aspect is a relationship based on unconditional love. 

What’s Really Going On When Your Child Won’t Listen?...

What’s Really Going On When Your Child Won’t Listen?...

One of the most common requests I get from parents is, "I've tried everything and my child still won't listen. What can I do?" There are several factors involved in a child's willingness to cooperate. A child not doing what she is told is less about "not listening" and more about how able she feels to do what you want her to do. 

Take a Moment and Practice Unspoken Love

Take a Moment and Practice Unspoken Love

More often than not, family life feels very complicated. We often wonder if we are doing the right things to make our family members feel loved and supported, and whether or not we are spending our time in the right ways. As parents in particular, we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to create a beautiful home-life for our children. 

How to Peacefully Teach and Set Clear Limits, Boundaries and Consequences with Your Child

How to Peacefully Teach and Set Clear Limits, Boundaries and Consequences with Your Child

Limits, boundaries and consequences all work together with love and empathy to teach and help our kids perceive and interact with the world in positive ways. In this article I’ll address each concept of limits, boundaries and consequences and some practical ways to understand and use them in positive, peaceful ways.

What To Do When Your Child Won’t Listen

What To Do When Your Child Won’t Listen

One of the most common requests I get from parents is, "I've tried everything and my child still won't listen. What can I do?" There are several factors involved in a child's willingness to cooperate. A child not doing what she is told is less about "not listening" and more about how able she feels to do what you want her to do. 

12 Tips to Help a Great Mum be Greater

12 Tips to Help a Great Mum be Greater

Stay true to yourself. You don’t have to give up your own passions and interests once you become a mum. It’s important that you find time for what YOU love to do. Reading, writing, exercising – make these a priority and find a way to incorporate them into your routine. Easier said than done, I know, but you should at least aim to keep doing what you love, even if you don’t get to do it as often as before.